Friends keep you alive
So many people say life is passing them by; myself included. They are right, and i have a theory as to why. What we all lack is the means to get back into the game. Is life really a game? If it is people haven’t read the rules. Winning in life isn’t about beating your fellow competitors, it’s all about filling and using your own potential. Actually, when you break it down the method to succeed is quite simple. To play a part in the ultimate game we need to live. Potential, dreams and desires are all aspects of ourselves designed to promote and encourage our own living. Why do we seem to have so many problems doing it?
The first mistake is thinking we need to do it on our own. Life is a team game. The more members a team has directly effects the amount of dreams and ambition in the pot. In turn; and I apologise for the RPG reference (I’m a geek, i think in weird ways); this fills the imaginary experience bar. You cannot be living if you don’t experience anything.
It’s easy to say, if only it was that easy to make it reality. In truth I think we know all too well what we need to do, what stops us is the inability to find a way to do it. The Key I think is the team – something I haven’t had since I was 15 – If you don’t have one you need one and not just any old team either or that would prove to be very counter productive. You need to find one you can feel part of, like you have a key role in it’s function. Variety is essential but don’t sacrifice your core beliefs just to “fit in”
At the end of the day every human being desires the same thing, happiness, regardless of how that is achieved. relationships form when there are similar aspects found in two individuals. Their differences will form a relationship with another and so on. Pretty soon a long line will emerge like links in a chain. The links of an ultimate team connect at the ends to form a circle, your circle of friends. Chains come in all shapes and sizes and one major advantage. They can be adjusted. links can be swapped around, added or removed as you grow and mature.
I guess what I’m getting at is that people need people, we very rarely realise how much until we look at how a group of friends function and evolve. It’s something we need to live.
